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Pain in the butt (and back)

[Note: This post was written under the influence of pain killers. I’m pretty out of it.]

It seems like I can’t go a week without experience some kind of medical trauma, either imagined or real.

On Sunday morning, probably sometime around 3:00, I woke up to go make some pee-pee.

Felt fine, you know? Eyes opened like they usually do. Bladder communicated a fullness to my brain with great success. Everything seemed to be working in that magical chemical harmony that is the symphony of life. Woo-ha.

Things changed a second later, though.

As soon as I stood up, I felt a sensation that I had never felt before. It would be very difficult to communicate the kind and degree of pain that I felt. It was as though I was, very quickly, growing a third arm out of the base of my spine. The thing felt like it was going to explode. It radiated throughout my entire body.

I don’t speak “spine,” but if I did, I think it was saying something like “Kill me… please… killme…”

I turned over to my beautiful woman and said, “I think I’m going to go to the emergency room.”

She shot out of bed, got dressed, helped dress me (couldn’t do it myself – very embarrassing), and drove me to the ER.

And there I sat. Squirming around, looking for a comfortable position, wishing that I could have just had something simple like Anthrax. The sort of thing you can take care of with a shot.

Went in to see the doc and got the usual “idunno” response. That’s what you can expect from the ER. I feel like ER docs are just human routers for trauma packets, examining the problem and then forwarding patients to appropriate services.

Here’s what really bugged me, though – It was about 4:00 AM when I finally saw the doc. I was in incredible pain, like ready to scream, and I was expecting some seriously awesome pain killers.

But what did I get?

Morphine? No.

Percocet? No.

Whisky? Not even.

“This is going to hurt a little,” the nurse said. I was on my side, my bare ass exposed, and she was inserting the needle into my leftmost buttockal region.

“What is it?” I asked her. I’m what I like to think of as “pharmo-curious.” The body is a fascinating system, and I love thinking about the ways in which we can chemically alter its state.

“It’s a non-steroidal, non-narcotic anti-inflammatory,” she responded.

I was immediately disappointed.

“You mean you’re injecting ibuprofen into my ass?”

How lame! Ibuprofen is what you give to people with migraines (as I know from vast experience), or to women who are having really bad menstrual cramps. But to the guy who’s had two hours of sleep and is in serious, intense pain, an intra-ass shot of Advil is not, repeat, not cool!

It’s irritating because they stressed the point that it wasn’t a narcotic. Like I care!

The “war on drugs” mentality in this country seems to have been there in the ER, instructing the doc to “do the right thing,” which was to give me a totally ineffective shot in the hopes that I wouldn’t leave her care as a junkie by the end of the morning.

In any sane country, I would have been doped to the gills with all sorts of analgesics that actually would have done something.

Twenty minutes after having about a gallon of Advil injected into my beautiful ass, I was still in just as much pain as before, except that I now had a needle-wound in my butt and the pain to accompany it. It actually made my situation worse.

Anyway, they sent me home with some real pain killers, and those fortunately did a halfway decent job of countering the feeling of a hatchet being ground into my spine.

But I still don’t know what’s wrong. Have a doctor’s appointment on Wednesday to figure this out.

In the meantime, I’m pretty much out of commission. I’m not in as much pain, but the drugs are making me really sleepy.

Blah. Here’s some advice for you: Don’t hurt your back. Just don’t. It sucks.

Published Monday, March 07, 2005 9:40 PM by Rory

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Mike Goatly said:

I feel you pain, Rory - I had almost exactly the same thing happen to me a few months ago - I know what caused it though - I was pushing a whole load of chairs around, and it "pinged"...

Still, in the spirit of oneupmanship, I didn't have an injection into my arse - they shoved a pill up it! A good night out for some, I guess (especially my girlfriend who couldn't stop laughing and taking photos of me on her phone!)
March 7, 2005 10:15 PM
 

Don Demsak said:

The first thing I thought of while reading your post was that Rory has a kidney stone.

The next thing was that Rory, needs to have Christian Weyer come over and fix his back for him: http://neopoleon.com/blog/posts/1290.aspx

Or maybe you are having a very delayed reaction from having a big German guy pick you up. Wonder if you can sue?
March 8, 2005 1:39 AM
 

Ralph Loizzo said:

No one should go through the shit you go through.

'nuff said

March 8, 2005 4:20 AM
 

Rob Tillie said:

Hey dude,

I can confirm that you can use morphine for about 6 weeks without really getting hooked.
So start trippin dude... doesn't MS have a secret morphine stack somewhere? it is really good stuff...
(btw, I didn't use it for fun or some kind of experiment, I was burned 50%)
I hope they figure out what you have, because being in pain without knowing what it is is really terrifying... good luck!

Greetz,
-- Rob.
March 8, 2005 9:42 AM
 

Sunil said:

Want to get out of your medical problems..here is an unconventional advice..go see a homeopath. abchomeopathy.com
March 8, 2005 2:30 PM
 

skicow said:

Damn Rory, you are like a pain magnet....You sure that you aren't a 85 year old living in a 20-something body?
March 8, 2005 3:43 PM
 

Joe Beda said:

Hey Rory,

It sucks to be in so much pain. My wife works in the ER at harborview. (She is an internal medicine doc and not an ER doc -- so she does more than route trauma packets). In any case, the stories she has about drug seekers are many and varied. It is so hard to tell when someone is working you or if they really have pain. When all someone wants are some narcotics, they can become good actors. If the ER is an easy place to score (and some are) then it can get overrun by drug seekers. Harborview pretty much won't hand out narcotics unless you have a bone sticking out someplace.

I hope you feel better soon!
March 8, 2005 4:26 PM
 

James said:

So, did you make it to the toilet or pee in the car?
March 8, 2005 4:34 PM
 

Larry Osterman said:

Rory,
That SUCKs. I know where you're coming from, I spent 6 weeks out of work about 3 years ago because I blew my back out (assuming you don't have a kidney stone, your symptoms certainly sound like a stone to my uneducated ears).

If it does turn out to be back pain, then let me know - I fixed my back via a combination of Tai Chi, intensive walking, and the help of Master Zhang, Jie, a tui-na healer and pa kua master.

Master Zhang is amazing.
March 8, 2005 5:40 PM
 

Raif Harik said:

Hi, to my ears, excruciating pain followed by hours in the ER to receive nothing but a non narcotic bla bla bla, I stopped listening after the important part, sounds just like my kidney stone experience. Except instead of growing a third arm out of my spine it was more like passing a third arm out of your, well, you know, the smaller of the two options. I appreciate the ER Docs problems with drug seekers, I'm in there about once a week trying but somehow I can never spontaneously produce sweat from every pore while contorting my face like jim carrey when I'm not for real. Oh well, sounds like you got the stuff in the end. Good Job!
March 8, 2005 5:56 PM
 

Hermann Klinke said:

Oh man, I am so sorry for you. I can't believe that you get fucked by your body all the time. Why the fuck can't the doctors figure out what's wrong with your body? Maybe you should try to see a doctor in another country. I am feeling with you man!
March 8, 2005 6:42 PM
 

Steve Hall said:

EEeeeewww! My back started aching just reading about your problem! I screwed mine up 25 years ago whilst playing volleyball with my department of he-men practicing for the company-wide volleyball league. Sort of fell on the knot of a oak root sticking up out of the ground... Of course I KNEW the tree root was there, but after about 10 beers (this was Memorial Day weekend), I didn't (fortunately) feel a thing! I just got up and shook it off and continued to play for another hour or two... (When the beer wore off 2-3 days later, THEN it started making it's presence known!) What's worse is that I didn't have anyone to help me out of bed...and almost had to call da cops to come kick the door down! Fortunately, it turned out to be two specific muscles that I pulled; no ligament or joint damage.

Thus, my pennance for my remaining time on earth is that once or twice a year I over-extend myself (with an "over-extension" reach to pick something up), and wake up the next morning sore. The kind where I fear getting into my car...because I may not be able to get out!

But that sure beats my high school coaches (two of them, both in their 20's) who REALLY screwed up their backs while having sex...apparently, while trying to make little basketball players. Both of them were flat on their backs for several weeks recovering from their indiscretion (er, poor sex position). The fun part was these two guys taught 10th grade sex class. Every year after that, they very kindly told their sex classes exactly which position caused them grief and cautioned everyone on using such. (I went to a rather progressive high-school...)

My once-a-year sore back also sure beats a roommate I had for a while that was spitting kidney stones like a BB gun 2 or 3 times a year... (Of course, he ignored his doctor and continued to eat cheese by the ton, which his kidneys kindly turned into calcium BBs.) After about the 3rd or 4th time in 2 years, he got strong out on narcotics (read: ADDICTED) and became well-kwown throughout the county's ER rooms as a "frequent flyer". Eventually they had to send him to a clinic to get off the junk. (Actually, last that I heard, he'd been sent to no less than 3 different clinics to go straight...)

Thus, my little sore back (when I can't bend over or get out of my car) is NOTHING compared to what others go through! I sympathize with you, but PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE be careful with the dope ok? I wouldn't want to have to dispatch Nurse Cratchett to your place to get you weaned off the hard stuff!
March 8, 2005 8:57 PM
 

Rory said:

Mike -

"Still, in the spirit of oneupmanship, I didn't have an injection into my arse - they shoved a pill up it!"

Um.

Um.

Uh.

OK.

Um.

*You win*.
March 8, 2005 9:04 PM
 

Rory said:

Don -

"The first thing I thought of while reading your post was that Rory has a kidney stone."

That's what people have been suggesting, but this really seems like a spiny thing to me.

It might just be something that's going to happen on occasion. I had viral meningitis when I was younger, and a spinal tap is what allowed for that diagnosis.

I didn't heal well from the spinal tap, and had a hole in my spine for a while after, eventually having to have it "patched" in a process that I won't describe here :)

I wondered at the time if it would come back to cause me grief later, and who knows... This might be it.
March 8, 2005 9:06 PM
 

Rory said:

Sunil -

"Want to get out of your medical problems..here is an unconventional advice..go see a homeopath."

Absolutely not.

Maybe I'll write a post about this sometime. I have some *very* strong feelings about homeopathy.
March 8, 2005 9:08 PM
 

Rory said:

skicow -

"Damn Rory, you are like a pain magnet....You sure that you aren't a 85 year old living in a 20-something body?"

It's weird. I have these lame medical problems, but my body *seems* really healthy.

I don't get it.

But I've often had the thought you did - that I'm just an old man without the wrinkles :|
March 8, 2005 9:09 PM
 

egilh said:

Is there an epidemic I don't know about? JK just had back problems as well http://jkontherun.blogs.com/jkontherun/2005/03/of_back_injurie.html

Back pain hurts like mad. I have been there twice but always after doing something (stupid) to hurt my back. Long walks and stretching has cured me (hopefully)

Hope your back gets better before you go (even more) crazy :-)
March 8, 2005 9:10 PM
 

Rory said:

Joe -

"When all someone wants are some narcotics, they can become good actors. If the ER is an easy place to score (and some are) then it can get overrun by drug seekers."

Good call. That might be it.

Drives me nuts, though - that because some people abuse the system, the rest of us don't get proper treatment.

Seems like some junkies slipping through the cracks should just be an accepted drawback of running a hospital.

Hm.

Still, thanks for the explanation - makes me a bit less upset :)
March 8, 2005 9:10 PM
 

Rory said:

Hermann -

"Why the fuck can't the doctors figure out what's wrong with your body?"

Probably because my body just *sucks*, and that's what it comes down to.

I've often thougt that, had I been born 100 years ago, I wouldn't have made it past birth.
March 8, 2005 9:12 PM
 

Steve Hall said:

HHuuummm... You say you had a hole in your spine and it had to be "patched".

Might this be the location of the alien neuro-tap? (I envision some gloppy alien in a geosync orbiting craft aiming a remote control in your direction...) This would explain a LOT in your life!

Mulder wants to compare notes with you...
March 8, 2005 9:40 PM
 

Rob Lyman said:

I had headache that started about noon one Saturday. I took a few tylenol and it did not get any better. In fact, it got much worse. By 3:00 pm I was trying to "nap" it off laying on the couch with the shades drawn. By 7:00 pm my wife called in an appointment to the doctor/clinic for Sunday. By 7:45 pm my wife was packing me into the car for a trip to ER.

I was thinking I had a sinus infection from the sniffles I had for the last week and a half. At the ER I got wheeled into a room for a CT scan. When that showed no signs of a sinus infection the doctor mentioned an LP. My nursing school wife got this ghost white look on here face, which prompted me to ask for an immediate explanation of "LP". I learned that an LP is a lumbar puncture, or spinal tap. I was thinking, "For what, a sinus infection?" After more explaining I found out they suspected menegitis. They gave me some percocet and a local near my spine and at that point I begin to care a little less since my headache induced nausea was nolonger threatening to make me vomit.

The LP showed dark fluid (not good) caused by an infection in my spinal lining and no doubt by the blood from the nerve being nicked by his needle insertion. I still have a numb spot on my left thigh months later that started as a sharp pain during the LP.

The scariest part was hearing the uncertainty in the young doctor's voice as he discussed the LP with his nurse. It was clear he did not feel comfortable doing the procedure even though he knew it needed to be done. He gave me the wrong forms to fill out. Not that it mattered, I was wacked out on percocet and pain. I would have signed papers to take me to the labor and delivery wing at that point. He also dropped the LP needle on the floor and had to get his nurse to find another LP packet. Since there were no more LP packets to be found, the nurse was instructed to just get a something-or-another guage needle. The nurse said, "A something-or-another guage needle? Are you sure?" The doctor responded, "Uh.. a something-or-another guage or a whatchmajig guage I guess."

Oh...I feel better now!!!

It took 48 hours of pain killers and antibiotics before they determined that I had viral menegitis and not bacterial. Both are dangerous, but bacterial can kill you in 24 to 48 hours and viral just makes you wish you were dead during the 24 to 48 hours.

It's really kind of weird thinking how I was just working out in the yard feeling fine (other than some sniffles) before noon and 8 hours later I am in the hospital.
March 9, 2005 8:02 PM
 

Rory said:

Rob -

That's almost *exactly* what my experience was like (less the Three Stooges doctors).

Well, also, they didn't give me any general pain killers before the spinal tap - just some weird numbing gel in my back.

Actually, my experience was nothing like yours, but you're the only other person I've met who had viral meningitis, and who described in the same way I do: "...viral just makes you wish you were dead."

I think I've used those exact words to describe it. I actually thought I was going to die, and even started to look forward to it at one point :)
March 9, 2005 8:49 PM
 

Andre said:

May he just needed to excrete.
March 9, 2005 11:46 PM
 

TrackBack said:

Mysterious Back Language
March 8, 2005 1:43 AM
 

TrackBack said:

Going toast crazy
March 8, 2005 9:01 PM
 

TrackBack said:

Motherpuking Angry
March 9, 2005 11:44 PM
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